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Cindy Morgan's avatar

Great article! I remember when I just HAD TO HAVE a black and white houndstooth jacket with colored sparkly threads running through it. It was the Nineties and that jacket was all the rage where I lived. I convinced myself that I would wear it forever and plunked down a couple of hundred hard-earned dollars. It went out of style quickly and looked dated. Had I instead purchased a classic single -breasted wool jacket in a solid navy or camel, I would still most likely have it and it would still spark joy.

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Averil Fenton's avatar

I recently discovered that for all my life, I have been purchasing items that are not flattering on me and do not fit me, just because I needed something to wear. I have made a promise to myself that I will only buy outfits that are very flattering and fit well. As a result, I have a few things in my closet that I reach for. I almost fell into a trap of making an expensive purchase because the store manager and two other shoppers were saying very flattering things. I put it on hold for a couple of hours then went back. When I tried it on again, I looked and said to myself hard no. I walked out of that store feeling so relieved that I did not put all that money down on something that I wasn’t comfortable with. I am trying to continue with that, as I currently have a closet full of items that don’t fit me properly or are uncomfortable. I have wasted so much money. From now on, I will only buy items that look smashing on me. Thank you for all the advice that you give.

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